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ALYSSA CARVARA

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A Man Committed to His Art

Rafael Black '71
Rafael Leonardo Black ’71
Artist who lived in Brooklyn, N.Y., died on May 15, 2020.

Black was a self-trained artist who spent more than 40 years creating elaborate pictorial mythologies steeped in art history and popular culture. “What I do is read and make my pictures,” Black told The New York Times in 2013, when he finally had his first New York gallery show, at 64. Why did he wait so long? Black explained that until then he “just never made the effort to sell” his artwork.

Born on January 6, 1949, on the Caribbean island of Aruba, Black began drawing as a child, encouraged by his parents. Many years later he would say of his artwork, “I’ve always done it since — well, I guess, since I’ve known myself.”

A prodigious early reader — like all Arubans, Black learned English, Dutch, French and Spanish in elementary school — he came to New York City in 1965 for high school. He spent much of his time in museums and small music clubs, listening to artists such as Jimi Hendrix. In 1967, Black was asked by the music magazine Crawdaddy to illustrate its reviews of The Beatles’s Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band and the Jimi Hendrix Experience’s Are You Experienced. Densely composed but done with fine-grained precision in black and white, the results set a model for his later work.

Black entered the College that year and majored in art history. “At Columbia, a wider world of the arts opened up to me,” he said, although he left school during his senior year and never graduated. He supported himself with myriad jobs, but his life revolved around his art — complex, labor-intensive drawings that were often years in the making.

Black’s gallery debut, at Francis Naumann Fine Art in Manhattan, was titled “Insider Art” and consisted of collage-like pencil drawings of historically diverse figures and scenes brought together under umbrella themes. The work was so detailed that the gallery provided magnifying glasses to view it and a multipage guide, with numbered charts of the compositions and annotations by the artist identifying the figures depicted.

Most of the artwork at what turned out to be Black’s only gallery showing was sold, earning him more money than he had ever had. But money was never the point for Black; he was content to labor in solitude in his small apartment in Clinton Hill. “People who become what are called ‘artists’ don’t stop,” he told the Times. “There’s a saying: ‘Everybody writes poems at 15; real poets write them at 50.’”

Black is survived by a nephew, Jean Murphy.


Helping People Help Themselves

Dr. Charles Goodstein ’58
Dr. Charles Goodstein ’58
Psychoanalyst who lived in Tenafly, N.J., died on April 30, 2020.

Goodstein devoted his professional life to psychoanalysis, the system of psychological theories and therapeutic techniques related to the study of the unconscious mind that together form a method of treatment for mental disorders.

Goodstein grew up in Manhattan and graduated from Stuyvesant H.S. After earning a degree from the University of Pittsburgh Medical School, he served as a captain in the Air Force and then became an adult and child psychoanalyst in Tenafly. He also was a clinical professor on the faculty of NYU Medical School, teaching as part of the Psychoanalytic Association of New York.

Goodstein was a devoted family man with enthusiasm about the world, an ability to make everyone laugh, a flair for the dramatic and a never-ending intellectual curiosity evidenced by encyclopedic knowledge, attentive listening and incisive questions. He was devoted to improving the lives of family, friends, patients and students. He loved a good joke, a good argument, a good parking spot, art, music, travel, photography, the New York Yankees, bear hugs and dark chocolate.

He is survived by his wife of 58 years, Carolyn (née Ehrlich); son, Clifford; daughter, Catherine, and her husband, Ian Wallace; and two grandchildren.


A Football Player, an Officer and a Gentleman

Thomas E. O’Connor Jr. ’63
Thomas E. O’Connor Jr. ’63
Business executive who lived in Saddle River, N.J., died on April 7, 2020.

For many people, their college years can shape their lives. Such was the case for O’Connor, who was born August 17, 1941, in Chicopee, Mass., the oldest of 10 children.

O’Connor was a popular running back on the fabled 1961 football team that won Columbia’s only Ivy League Championship. A three-year letter winner, he rushed for 860 yards in his career, including 418 in 1961, when he ran for four touchdowns including a 46-yard run against Princeton that remains the longest scoring run against the Tigers in Columbia history. He was captain of the squad the following year, when he was the team’s leading rusher with 250 yards, and was inducted with the 1961 team into the Columbia University Athletics Hall of Fame in 2010.

O’Connor also served in NROTC and entered the Navy after graduation, becoming a nuclear submarine officer serving on the U.S.S. Von Steuben. As a young lieutenant he went to Britain, where he worked for the commander and chief of the U.S. Naval Forces Europe. It was there he met his wife, Terrie (née Grace); they married 10 months later and spent several years together in London.

O’Connor returned to the States and attended the Tuck School at Dartmouth, where he earned an M.B.A., and settled in Saddle River, N.J. He was the director of administration at McCarter & English, a law firm in Newark, N.J., for 25 years. Following retirement, O’Connor worked with his wife at Terrie O’Connor Realtors in Ramsey, N.J.

“Tom was a good friend and a regular attendee of our Class of ’63 lunches over the years,” recalled Paul Neshamkin ’63. “He was a great guy and one of the most popular members of our class.” Added Tom Vasell ’62, “It was a privilege to know Tom for more than 50 years, as a Columbia student, a teammate on the 1961 championship team and a good friend. He was tough, strong and reliable as the day is long. We will miss him dearly.”

O’Connor is survived by his wife; daughter, Katy Smiechowski and her husband, Greg; daughter Nellie Khattab and her husband, Samer; son Matt and his wife, Emma; son Joe and his wife, Katie Cavanaugh; foster sons, Hai Le and Ha Le; and 10 grandchildren. Memorial contributions may be made to The Grace Foundation of Terrie O’Connor Real Estate Companies, 300G Lake St., Ramsey, NJ 07446.


The Music Man

Donald Sorel '79
Donald J. Sorel ’79
Musician, teacher and administrator who lived in Pomona, N.Y., died on April 7, 2020.

Sorel was born for a life in music. At a time when other children dreamed of being astronauts or athletes, Sorel would run around the house saying, “I’m Chopin! I’m Chopin!”

His parents got him an upright piano and he took to it immediately, so much so that his first teacher, Judy Thomas, recognized Sorel’s potential and suggested he attend the Preparatory Division at the renowned Juilliard School. There, his instructor, Robert Harris, urged the family to buy a grand piano so Sorel could fully develop his talent. His parents responded by purchasing a Steinway, and by 14 Sorel was an accomplished pianist who was substituting for organist George Bryant at St. Ann’s Church and teaching piano lessons to neighborhood children.

Sorel earned a master’s in music education from Teachers College. He was immediately hired by Collegiate School, a private school for boys on the Upper West Side where he had done his student teaching, launching a 38-year career that enriched the lives of generations of young men. In announcing Sorel’s passing on social media, Collegiate said, “He graced our community for 38 years with his passion for music, creativity, deep understanding of the liberal arts and absolute belief in the importance of art being a central part of such an education. His vision for music at Collegiate served to bring meaning into the lives of boys since he first arrived at the School in 1982.”

One of Sorel’s students, Michael Gruters, wrote that his 12 years at Collegiate “would have been nearly impossible without the balance of pure life and humanity that he brought, taught and inspired there. I, along with my friends, remember Mr. Sorel with adoration, a patient musician, filled by music and levity. Don was that magic, loving force that washed over his students and people that knew him. I count myself lucky to be among them.”

Sorel founded and developed the Collegiate Conservatory Program, the school’s K–12 music program, and directed choral groups for 38 years. He played the organ in West End Collegiate Church and worked with Collegiate faculty and students to create their annual holiday program. In addition, Sorel was the organist at The Brick Church in New Hempstead, at St. Francis of Assisi Church in West Nyack and, for the last 30 years, at St. Margaret Church in Pearl River, where he teamed with his high school sweetheart and wife, Terri (née Slaker), who was the music director and cantor.

Sorel’s wife survives him, as do his sons, Jason, Jeffrey and Alex; sister, Michele, and her husband, Darryl G. Ivey; brother, Patrick, and his wife, Leslie; and numerous cousins, aunts and uncles.


A Life Devoted to Others

Dr. Robert H. Weitzman ’62
Physician who lived in Linden, N.J., died on April 7, 2020.

Weitzman dedicated himself to helping others, whether as a cardiovascular and pulmonary specialist at hospitals in Central New Jersey, while seeing patients in his private medical practice or as a lay leader at his local synagogue, Congregation Anshe Chesed.

“He was a member of the board of directors and a very generous supporter,” said Rabbi Joshua Hess of Anshe Chesed. “I found him to be extremely insightful. He would present his ideas in a way so that people would listen to him. His advice was valued and often taken. He came to services every Saturday and was a part of the Anshe Chesed family.”

A graduate of Linden H.S., Weitzman earned an M.D. at the New Jersey College of Medicine, and served his internship at Beth Israel Hospital in New York and his residency at Orange County Hospital in California. During the Vietnam War, he was stationed in Danang on staff at the U.S. Naval Hospital.

Once back home, Weitzman became an attending physician at the John F. Kennedy Medical Center in Edison, N.J. The cardiovascular and pulmonary-disease specialist became chief of pulmonary medicine at Muhlenberg Regional Medical Center in Plainfield, N.J., a teaching facility with a nursing school and medical residency program that merged with JFK Medical Center in 2008. He also ran a clinic in Westfield, N.J., and was an associate professor at New Jersey College of Medicine.

Weitzman was a lifetime member of Congregation Anshe Chesed and a donor to many Jewish causes. He is survived by his brother, Morton, and sister-in-law, Laura; and extended family. Memorial contributions may be made to Congregation Anshe Chesed, 1000 Orchard Terr., Linden, NJ 07036.


At the Crossroads of Philosophy, Mathematics and Religion

Mark J. Steiner ’65
Mark J. Steiner ’65
Professor of philosophy who lived in Jerusalem, Israel, died on April 6, 2020.

Steiner was a leader in the study of the philosophy of mathematics, a groundbreaking author, and a tireless teacher and scholar. Until the week before his death, he was teaching a popular seminar on the philosophy of Ludwig Wittgenstein at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem, where he chaired the philosophy department.

Born in the Bronx, Steiner entered Columbia in 1960 but spent 1963–64 with Mel Barenholtz ’65, GSAS’73 studying Talmud at Yeshivat Kerem B’Yavneh in Israel. Barenholtz recalled, “In a yeshiva, students attend a daily lecture in Talmud and, for the rest of a 10-hour day of study, they study in pairs. For the entire school year, for about six hours each day, Mark and I studied Talmud and Codes together. We had a great year and always cherished the experience.”

Steiner returned to the College and completed his degree in philosophy. Azriel Genack ’64 recalled Steiner as being “deeply engaged with fellow students and faculty, especially with Professor Sidney Morgenbesser,” with whom he developed a close friendship that lasted more than 40 years.

After a Fulbright Fellowship at Oxford University, Steiner earned a doctorate from Princeton in 1972 before becoming an instructor at Columbia. He moved to Israel in 1977 and became the chair of the philosophy department at Hebrew University in the 1990s, although he often returned to Columbia to teach during the summer.

The overlap between Steiner’s Jewish commitments and his academic interests was evident in his tendency to use rabbinic anecdotes to illustrate his points while debating with his colleagues. His religious inclination also led to a series of studies, including a research project in which he drew parallels between medieval Jewish philosopher Moses Maimonides and 18th-century Scottish thinker David Hume. Steiner also translated a series of previously unknown Jewish philosophy books from Yiddish to English.

In his most famous book, The Applicability of Mathematics as a Philosophical Problem (2002), Steiner argued that man’s ability to discover natural laws means that the universe is innately user friendly and that there is meaning and reason in things. He also published on Jewish philosophy, including articles on the philosophy of Rabbi Israel Salanter and Saul Kripke, and especially on Rabbi Reuven Agushewitz, whose work he rescued from obscurity and translated into English.

Steiner is survived by his wife of 54 years, Rachel Freeman BC’65; brother, Richard; sons, Hillel, Yoel and Aharon; daughters, Hadas and Navah; and many grandchildren and great-grandchildren.


Life Lessons Learned on the Mat

Robert S. “Duck” Dickstein ’62
Robert S. “Duck” Dickstein ’62
Retired real estate attorney and wrestling coach who lived in Teaneck, N.J., died on April 4, 2020.

The experience of a lifetime can come at any time. For Dickstein, it was the 1961 college wrestling season, when he helped Columbia to its first Ivy League wrestling championship. The lessons he learned and friendships he formed on the wrestling mat and in the locker room that winter helped shape the rest of his life.

“The group of guys was special,” Dickstein said in an article published by Columbia Athletics in 2011, the 50th anniversary of that championship season. “Each wrestler was a good guy and we really enjoyed each other. There were no jealousies. We were rooting for each other, and all had great senses of humor, which translated into a lot of fun.”

Born on April 16, 1941, in New York City, Dickstein spent his early childhood in Washington Heights before moving to Teaneck, where he lived the rest of his life. After majoring in economics, he went to NYU Law and became a successful real estate attorney in Hackensack, N.J. He retired in 1995 in order to focus on helping people who suffered from addiction, and mentoring countless students in sports, making them not only better athletes but also better human beings.

But his lifelong passion was wrestling. Dickstein was the freshman wrestling coach for the Lions while at law school and was an ardent supporter of the Columbia wrestling program the rest of his life, spending countless hours refereeing and attending matches all over the country.

Shortly after his death, Columbia Athletics established the Bob Dickstein Memorial Award, given annually in his memory to the member wrestling team member “who best embodies Bob’s joy for living and adventure of spirit. It is presented to whoever has made the greatest contribution in terms of inspirational leadership, sportsmanship and college loyalty.” The first recipient of the award, presented on April 13, 2020, was Joe Franzese ’22.

One day Dickstein never forgot was February 25, 1961, when the Lions hosted Cornell, winner of five consecutive Ivy titles, in a matchup of teams that were unbeaten in league competition. “All of the experts on Ivy League wrestling gave us no chance at the beginning of the season,” Dickstein, who wrestled at 157 lbs., recalled 50 years later. “But sometime during the middle of the season, we were gaining confidence and honestly believed we could win.” And win they did, when heavyweight Lou Asack ’63 pinned William Werst to complete a 17–12 victory for the Lions. One week later Columbia defeated Penn to seal the Ivy championships.

Asked his feelings, Dickstein summed it up succinctly: “Ecstasy and euphoria!”

Dickstein is survived by his wife, Janet; brother, Jerry, and his wife, Ivette; daughters, Carol Manso and Holly; and four grandchildren.


A Man of Many Interests

John Diaz '58
John C. Diaz ’58, SEAS’59
Retired college campus plant manager who lived in Germantown, Pa., died on April 3, 2020.

Diaz was a contract engineer, mechanical controller, import/export man and vitamin manufacturer before settling into his calling as campus plant manager at Haverford (Pa.) College. He championed causes such as community food co-ops and quality integrated schools in Philadelphia and was passionate about the visual and performing arts, avidly listened to jazz and appeared in numerous community theater productions. According to family, he loved life, was never bored, rarely complained and readily talked with people he encountered, occasionally to the embarrassment of relatives.

Born in New York City and raised in Washington Heights, Diaz earned a B.A. in pre-engineering and B.S. in mechanical engineering. He worked for Standard Oil Pipeline, as a contract engineer for a construction company in Southern California, for a joint venture aerospace simulator construction company and as a mechanical controller at Philadelphia Burner Service. After his parents were killed in a car crash in 1969, he took over his father’s import/export business to Central America and began making vitamin-rich emulsions including Ceregen, Ozomulsion and Nervita. But when shipments were repeatedly hijacked in 1978 in El Salvador during civil unrest, those businesses went on permanent hiatus.

Diaz became the manager of Day & Frick, a Philadelphia manufacturer of vitamins and supplements, but landed his dream job in 1986 when he became physical plant director at Haverford, supervising construction and renovations on campus until retiring in 2009. He loved the college community, arts and culture, and in retirement enrolled in classes at West Chester University to earn a teaching certificate in secondary mathematics.

Blessed with a resonating stage voice and a dashing physical presence, Diaz enjoyed participating in productions at Stagecrafters Theater and Allens Lane Art Center, both in Philadelphia, including Don Juan in Hell; Curse of the Starving Class; Sticks and Bones; A Runner Stumbles; A Doll’s House; Catch-22; Little Murders; and Little Alice. He was an advocate and supporter of Philadelphia arts such as the Fringe Festival, International House films, PlayPenn, Pig Iron, the Institute of Contemporary Art and many others. He also loved jazz, so much so that he regaled family with stories of having seen Miles Davis weekly while in NYC, and listened to jazz on the radio as he went to sleep.

Diaz is survived by his wife, Pamela Kerr; son, Austin; daughters Lisa Riegel, Cymantha Liakos and Christina Diaz Meyer; and nine grandchildren. Memorial contributions may be made to your favorite community arts organization or the Temple University Lung Center.


A Yankees Fan to the Core

Stephen A. Steiner ’66
Stephen A. Steiner ’66, GSAS’67
Retired public relations executive who lived in Queens, N.Y., died on March 30, 2020.


Steiner could easily be identified by his New York Yankees baseball cap, which he proudly wore for many years to and from work, between his home in the Briarwood neighborhood of Queens and his office in lower Manhattan.

Born in the Bronx, Steiner majored in history and earned a master’s in American history from GSAS. He was very active at Spectator; he covered sports for four years and was sports editor in his senior year. He also was known as a trivia expert, particularly on baseball and especially on his beloved Yankees.

Early in his professional career Steiner taught history and Spanish at a high school in Brooklyn and later was a sports writer. In 1994 he became director of public relations for the American Jewish Congress and associate PR director for the Council of Jewish Federations, serving in both positions for eight years. In 2002 he became director of public relations for the Orthodox Union (OU), a position he held for more than a decade until his retirement.

To his colleagues, Steiner was the kind and friendly man who arrived at the office wearing a Yankees cap and toting a doorstop of a book about American history. “He was always reading these really huge books all the time,” recalled Rabbi Menachem Genack, the head of the OU’s kosher division. “He was just the nicest person. I really miss him.”

Tova Cohen, who worked for Steiner at the OU, said, “One morning at work, I received a phone call from someone about an auction I had entered, telling me I won a free trip to Israel. I was so excited I shrieked with joy in middle of the entire office. Steve came running over to see what was going on; when I shared the news, he was so genuinely thrilled for me and immediately started strategizing about when I could take this vacation. That’s always what struck me the most about Steve — he truly shared in other people’s joy in a rare and beautiful way.”

Steiner is survived by his wife, Joy; son, David Jason; and daughter, Andrea.


Noted Dramatist Who Shed Light on Gay Life

McNally
Terrence McNally ’60
Four-time Tony Award-winning playwright who lived in New York City, died on March 24, 2020.


McNally’s work introduced theater audiences to homosexual characters and situations that most mainstream productions had shunted into comic asides. In a conversation with Philip Galanes in The New York Times Style Magazine in 2019, Galanes noted, “You were a pioneer, one of the first playwrights to explore gay characters in your work — from the very beginning, in the 1960s. Did you see that as bravery?” to which McNally replied, “Not at all. I saw it as: These are people. I wasn’t writing these plays in Texas. I was writing them in New York, which is sophisticated. I always felt it was O.K. to be gay in the American theater.”

McNally was a remarkably prolific dramatist, with some three dozen plays to his credit, as well as the books for 10 musicals, the librettos for four operas and a handful of screenplays for film and television. He won Tony Awards for the musicals Kiss of the Spider Woman (1993) and Ragtime (1998), and the plays Love! Valour! Compassion! (1995) and Master Class (1996), and was presented the 2019 Tony Award for Lifetime Achievement.

In 2018 McNally was inducted into the American Academy of Arts and Letters. He was presented the 2015 Lucille Lortel Lifetime Achievement Award and the 2011 Dramatists Guild Lifetime Achievement Award. McNally was inducted into the American Theater Hall of Fame in 1996.

The College presented McNally with a 1992 John Jay Award for distinguished professional achievement, and in 2004 he was presented with Columbia’s inaugural I.A.L. Diamond [’41] Award for Achievement in the Arts. He was the 2013 Class Day speaker.

McNally is survived by his husband of 17 years, Thomas Kirdahy, and a brother, Peter.